Cockiness Has No Game

yes, that's right. i came across an instance this past weekend where i realized that high amounts of arrogance can lead to inactivity.

"wtf why hasn't he made the first move yet?! do i have to initiate it?! did i do something wrong??"

hunny hunnyy... chill, chill. there can be a plethora of reasons why he didn't do anything at all. i can think of 5 from the top of my head:

1) too comfortable aka lazy
2) hasn't crossed his mind
3) shy
4) that's just not him aka non-traditional
5) thinks too highly of himself aka cocky

so what do you do in this situation? what happens when cocky sits next to shy? nobody will ever make a move, then it eventually dies. but all along there could've been potential...

just because you think something will happen, doesn't mean it will. Do something about it. we're not mind-readers. maybe a cheesy-ass line from the book of cupcaking, a wink, a conversation ending with a phone number, swag, an invite to coffee.. anything of your creativity will work! i think cockiness is like a shy person making up excuses for why he/she hasn't made a move yet.

you aint goin nowhere with that state of mind.


step your game up. never less!